[Dark Mode] Some rows/columns and ColumnHeader/RowHeader in the DataGridView control have incorrect colors

### .NET version

.NET SDK 9.0.100-rc.1.24415.1 + build private dll form winforms repo release/9.0 branch

### Did it work in .NET Framework?

No

### Did it work in any of the earlier releases of .NET Core or .NET 5+?

This is a new feature Dark Mode: https://github.com/dotnet/winforms/pull/11857

### Issue description

Button and combobox types rows/columns and ColumnHeader/RowHeader in the DataGridView control have incorrect colors

### Steps to reproduce

1. Create a WinForms .NET Core application with DataGridView control.
2. Enable DarkMode by `Application.SetColorMode(SystemColorMode.Dark)` in program.cs file.
3. Add different types of columns to the DataGridView, such as button, checkbox and combobox.
4. Run the application.
5. Observe the result.