[Bug]: Appears to be impossible to run a command between build dependent projects and expand wildcards

### Issue Description

Stackoverflow reference here: https://stackoverflow.com/questions/77929595/how-do-i-late-resolve-in-csproj-files

The stackoverflow reproduction is overshortened; what's going on is the "dotnet run" command runs a direct dependency.

Trying to fix it:
```
BeforeTargets="BeforeBuild" is too early
BeforeTargets="PrepareResources" is too late
BeforeTargets="BeforeCompile" is too late
BeforeTargets="BeforePrepareResources" cannot function as that target doesn't exist
```

Regression? Probably. According to our git repo; this worked in the feature development branch on 2024-02-05 on .NET 8 (which means the sdk must be a .NET 8 version but I can't ask git history for the exact sdk version) and broke since. I can't get a sane answer of the branch maintainer when it started failing because he conflates it with this bug: https://github.com/dotnet/msbuild/issues/9179

### Steps to Reproduce

1) Unpack this[msbuildrace.zip](https://github.com/user-attachments/files/17335409/msbuildrace.zip) zip file; it creates a directory msbuildrace

2) from a clean tree; try to build the dll and get the error
`...\msbuildrace\dll> dotnet build`

3) try to fix that error by changing BeforeBuild to BeforeCompile and try again
`...\msbuildrace\dll>sed -i s/BeforeTargets=^"BeforeBuild^"/BeforeTargets=^"BeforeCompile^" dll.csproj`
`...\msbuildrace\dll>dotnet build`
`...\msbuildrace\dll>dir bin\Debug\net8.0\*.dat`

There should be two .dat files in the compilation output but we got none.

### Expected Behavior

Build runs through and expands * after the custom build step runs so that CopyToOutputDirectory works

Note that having the tool write them to the output directory *doesn't work* because this is a dll and the copy needs to propagate.

### Actual Behavior

Random build breakage depending on a CPU race condition; I think I made a reliable reproduction but it might not be.

### Analysis

msbuild does wildcard expansion too soon

### Versions & Configurations

D:\dev>dotnet --version
8.0.403

D:\dev>dotnet msbuild --version
MSBuild version 17.11.9+a69bbaaf5 for .NET
17.11.9.46202

We don't use the standalone msbuild; only dotnet build (which contains an embedded copy of msbuild)