Poor CV performance, ghosting, crashing on Windows

### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [x] I have searched the existing issues

### Current Behavior

When using a CollectionView on Windows with a complex datatemplate (the issue is more exaggerated the more complex data template), you will observe ghosting while scrolling and low performance. Scrolling will "stutter" and mutating the datatemplate (setting a visibility property from true to false) in bulk can sometimes cause a `COMException` and a crash (no stack trace, `COMException` is empty even with Just My Code disabled and mixed debugging on).

The below video is captured running in **release** mode.

https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/f5dd0227-03b8-4699-9af9-add1581bbd35

### Expected Behavior

High performance scrolling with no "jittering", no crashing when children dynamically updated, just generally more stable.

### Steps To Reproduce

1. Create a collectionview binded to ~2000 items
2. Create a complex datatemplate. The more complex the datatemplate, the better.
3. Scroll to observe poor performance, jittering, ghosting.
4. Mutate the children in bulk (for example, bind to a `Visible` property and set half of them to `False`
5. Observe crash (sometimes)

### Link to public reproduction project repository

https://github.com/daltzctr/PoorCVRepro

### Environment

```markdown
- .NET MAUI CommunityToolkit: None
- OS: Windows 11 26100.4946
- .NET MAUI: .NET 10 Preview 7
```

### Anything else?

_No response_

Start by running the linked PoorCVRepro project on Windows and reproduce the CollectionView scrolling issues with about 2,000 items and a complex data template. Then test bulk visibility changes in the same reproduction; done means scrolling is stable without ghosting or jittering and bulk child updates no longer sometimes crash with an empty COMException.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.