Support ExecuteUpdate/Delete with view mapping where the column name differs between the table and view

When ExecuteUpdate/Delete is executed on a table that has a view mapping, special rewriting of the query expression must be done, as the translation references the view but we need to update the table instead (see #34677). This was done in #34709, but without handling the case where column names actually differ between the two mapings:

```c#
modelBuilder.Entity()
.ToTable("Cat", b => b.Property(c => c.Name).HasColumnName("Name"))
.ToView("CatView", b => b.Property(c => c.Name).HasColumnName("ViewName"));
```

To support this, we need to re-visit the expression, rewriting ColumnExpressions.