Ensure all tools properly surface connect and listen semantics for diagnostic ports

# Runtime in connect mode

- [ ] dotnet-dump - not very relevant until dumping can be done through trigger or other deferred action.
- [x] dotnet-trace - Currently used for scenarios such as startup tracing and assembly load diagnostics
- [ ] dotnet-counters - Doesn't seem as valuable, other than to be able to monitor if it was started in said mode already - likely as a result of tracing.
- [ ] dotnet-stack
- [ ] dotnet-gcdump

# Runtime in listen mode

Useful for container scenarios predominantly.
- [ ] dotnet-dump
- [ ] dotnet-trace
- [ ] dotnet-counters
- [ ] dotnet-stack
- [ ] dotnet-gcdump