Using codegen.ts in an ESM project causes cosmiconfig-typescript-loader to throw an "ES modules is not supported" error

### Describe the bug

I don't know if it's a bug or not, but I'm reporting it just in case. See _steps to reproduce_ below for a more detailed bug/issue explanation.

In short, if you set `"type": "module"` in `package.json` and use `codegen.ts` as a config file, `graphql-codegen` fails because of ESM error by `cosmiconfig-typescript-loader`.

If you use `codegen.yml` or delete `"type": "module"` from `package.json`, the error will not occur.

### Your Example Website or App

Not yet.

### Steps to Reproduce the Bug or Issue

1. Add `"type": "module"` in `package.json`
1. Run `npx graphql-code-generator init` and leave everything as default to create `codegen.ts`
1. Run generated codegen npm script `graphql-codegen --config codegen.ts`. It throws the following error:

```
TypeScriptLoader failed to compile TypeScript:
Must use import to load ES Module: /path/to/project/codegen.ts
require() of ES modules is not supported.
require() of /path/to/project/codegen.ts from /path/to/project/node_modules/cosmiconfig-typescript-loader/dist/cjs/index.js is an ES module file as it is a .ts file whose nearest parent package.json contains "type": "module" which defines all .ts files in that package scope as ES modules.
Instead change the requiring code to use import(), or remove "type": "module" from /path/to/project/package.json.
```

It maybe a bug in `cosmiconfig-typescript-loader`.

### Expected behavior

Code generation completes without throwing an error.

### Screenshots or Videos

_No response_

### Platform

- OS: Linux x86_64
- NodeJS: 18.8.0
- "typescript": "4.8.4"
- "graphql": "16.6.0"
- "@graphql-codegen/cli": "2.13.7"
- "@graphql-codegen/typescript": "2.7.4"
- "@graphql-codegen/typescript-resolvers": "2.7.4"

### Codegen Config File

_No response_

### Additional context

a sample `tsconfig.json`

```json
{
"compilerOptions": {
"outDir": "./dist",
"target": "es2021",
"lib": ["es2021"],
"module": "Node16",
"moduleResolution": "Node16",
"esModuleInterop": true
},
"include": ["src"]
}
```