(react-query) Adding both a hook version of exposing fetcher and passing in the query context

**Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**

Two problems
- We should be able to expose a fetcher for the query function even when using a hook
- We should pass in the query context so that we can access signal: Abort especially as that will be the only way to cancel queries it in react-query 4 and it will allow access to meta which should solve passing data to the fetcher. https://react-query.tanstack.com/guides/query-cancellation

**Describe the solution you'd like**

The fetcher is easy a hook that returns the function simples
The context would be using the same way infinite query works and pass a context down to the fetcher

**Describe alternatives you've considered**

Both of these are currently not available

**Additional context**