Audit correctness and add testing for Lookup, Merge, Hash, and RangeHeap Joins of different typed columns

Examples of type combinations we need to check:
- sets of different set types
- numbers and enums
- numbers and sets
- strings and enums
- strings and sets
- sets and enums
- various datetime types in combination with other types (might need to be a separate audit in it of itself since we currently don't even convert datetime types to numbers correctly #10278)

Correctness for Lookup and Merge joins for enums of different enum types to be fixed in dolthub/go-mysql-server#3382