Use geoarrow-rust for computing total bounds

There are probably a few places where `geoarrow-rust` could be useful to Lonboard.

One is getting the total bounds of the input: https://github.com/developmentseed/lonboard/blob/667dfedb633f41c89e70b491f5a961a702c3d884/lonboard/_geoarrow/ops/bbox.py#L36-L98

That apparently takes two seconds with 12.5M points, which seems awfully slow: https://github.com/xarray-contrib/xdggs/pull/67#discussion_r1786659267

The main blocker here is that we want to ensure that geoarrow-rust is stable enough to depend on here in Lonboard.