[Feature Request] Switch to LibTorch Stable ABI

### Summary

Switch to LibTorch Stable ABI in the `libdeepmd_op` and `libdeepmd_cc` libraries.

The LibTorch Stable ABI is based on headers files driven by the C API (which has a similar design like DeePMD-kit), thus it can promise the ABI-stability.

### Detailed Description

More information:
- https://pytorch.org/blog/pytorch-2-8/
- https://docs.pytorch.org/docs/stable/notes/libtorch_stable_abi.html
- https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/tree/main/torch/csrc/stable

### Further Information, Files, and Links

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