Support table.include/exclude.list and column.include/exclude.list options in Spanner connectors [DBZ-7990]

Migrated from DBZ-7990

We would like to be able to specify table.include/exclude.list and column.include/exclude.list options in the Spanner connector like we can specify in the MySQL and PostgreSQL connectors.

[https://debezium.io/documentation/reference/stable/connectors/postgresql.html#postgresql-property-table-include-list|http://example.com/]
[https://debezium.io/documentation/reference/stable/connectors/mysql.html#mysql-property-table-exclude-list|http://example.com/]

The use case is that when creating a changestream, we would like to monitor all changes as follows, and the connector would be used to exclude tables and columns that would contain PII.
{code:java}
CREATE CHANGE STREAM EverythingStream
FOR ALL;{code}
If PII is later included in a table or column, it should be very convenient to be able to quickly exclude it without any changes on the changestream side, just by changing the connector settings.

No implementation files or tests are named. Start by locating the Spanner connector configuration and its table and column filtering entry points, then compare the existing MySQL and PostgreSQL include/exclude options. Done means the connector can exclude configured tables and columns while the Spanner change stream continues monitoring all changes.