debezium takes a while to restart send db change after kafka cluster restored

## Bug report

**What Debezium connector do you use and what version?**

`3.3.x`

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**What is the connector configuration?**

`connect to ibm database(informix)`

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**What is the captured database version and mode of deployment?**

_E.g. on-premises, with a specific cloud provider, etc._

`on-premises`

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**What behavior do you expect?**

`when kafka cluster is down for 10 mins and when recovery the kafka cluster, the debezium start to sent the data when kafka down in short time.`

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**What behavior do you see?**

`the kafka cluster is down, but the debezium is success connect to the database the whole time.
when we recovery the kafka cluster, the debezium have success to send the db change to kafka
but the time debezium start to sent the db change in previous db kafka cluster down, it takes about 2~10mins after kafka cluster is restored`

some time the db change is small, but takes 10mis to send the db change after kafka cluster is restored,
some time the db change is bigger, but only takes 4~5mins to send the db change after kafka cluster is restored

also our single debezium connection have connect to 3 kafka url endpoint

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**Do you see the same behaviour using the latest released Debezium version?**

_Ideally, also verify with the latest Alpha/Beta/CR version._

`have not upgrade to latest version, because our kafka cluster have down for few times only happend recently, and it does not case the problem, only debezium start to send the data when kafka down takes some time`

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**Do you have the connector logs, ideally from start till finish?**

_You might be asked later to provide [DEBUG/TRACE](https://debezium.io/documentation/reference/stable/operations/logging.html) level log._

`no`

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**How to reproduce the issue using our [tutorial](https://github.com/debezium/debezium-examples/tree/main/tutorial) deployment?**

`yes, when we deployment the kafka, informix, debezium connecter using https://github.com/debezium/debezium-examples/blob/main/tutorial/docker-compose-ifx.yaml or other also might reproduce

after deployment, we stop the kafka service, docker compose down kafka, then start the write data to database, create the db change for debezium, then after 10 min, we start the kafka, the db change will restore to send to kafka, but sometime it takes 4~10mins after kafka already start.

we have test only 1~4 data write to db, which assume to see 4 data in topic, the data will send eventualy but sometime takes 4~10 mins, althrough it only have 4 data
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