`test_restarting_does_not_deadlock` flaky due to import error on deserialization

Example run https://github.com/dask/distributed/actions/runs/9886284934/job/27305772628

Apparently we're failing to deserialize an object which causes this test to fail every now and then. The failure message is not very descriptive, though

Traceback on CI

```python-traceback
2024-07-11 06:14:38,059 - distributed.shuffle._scheduler_plugin - WARNING - Shuffle ef8af1c8020cbdda5f63d080f5c59afc initialized by task ('shuffle-transfer-ef8af1c8020cbdda5f63d080f5c59afc', 9) executed on worker tcp://127.0.0.1:46279
2024-07-11 06:14:38,900 - distributed.protocol.pickle - INFO - Failed to deserialize b'\x80\x05\x95v\x04\x00\x00\x00\x00\x00\x00\x8c\x12dask_expr._shuffle\x94\x8c!AssignPartitioningIndex.operation\x94\x93\x94(\x8c0to_string_dtype-7ac6668f53d83fc03a572fcc298585c2\x94K#\x86\x94]\x94\x8c\x01x\x94a\x8c\x0b_partitions\x94K<\x8c\x11pandas.core.frame\x94\x8c\tDataFrame\x94\x93\x94)\x81\x94}\x94(\x8c\x04_mgr\x94\x8c\x1epandas.core.internals.managers\x94\x8c\x0cBlockManager\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x16pandas._libs.internals\x94\x8c\x0f_unpickle_block\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x13numpy._core.numeric\x94\x8c\x0b_frombuffer\x94\x93\x94(\x97\x8c\x05numpy\x94\x8c\x05dtype\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x02f8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x03\x8c\x01<\x94NNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK\x00t\x94bK\x02K\x00\x86\x94\x8c\x01C\x94t\x94R\x94\x8c\x08builtins\x94\x8c\x05slice\x94\x93\x94K\x00K\x02K\x01\x87\x94R\x94K\x02\x87\x94R\x94\x85\x94]\x94(\x8c\x18pandas.core.indexes.base\x94\x8c\n_new_Index\x94\x93\x94h,\x8c\x05Index\x94\x93\x94}\x94(\x8c\x04data\x94\x8c\x16numpy._core.multiarray\x94\x8c\x0c_reconstruct\x94\x93\x94h\x17\x8c\x07ndarray\x94\x93\x94K\x00\x85\x94C\x01b\x94\x87\x94R\x94(K\x01K\x02\x85\x94h\x19\x8c\x02O8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x03\x8c\x01|\x94NNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK?t\x94b\x89]\x94(h\x06\x8c\x01y\x94et\x94b\x8c\x04name\x94Nu\x86\x94R\x94\x8c\x1dpandas.core.indexes.datetimes\x94\x8c\x12_new_DatetimeIndex\x94\x93\x94hH\x8c\rDatetimeIndex\x94\x93\x94}\x94(h2\x8c\x13pandas._libs.arrays\x94\x8c\x1c__pyx_unpickle_NDArrayBacked\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x1cpandas.core.arrays.datetimes\x94\x8c\rDatetimeArray\x94\x93\x94J\x1f\x06\xf1\x04N\x87\x94R\x94h\x19\x8c\x02M8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x04h\x1dNNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK\x00}\x94(C\x02ns\x94K\x01K\x01K\x01t\x94\x86\x94t\x94bh5h7K\x00\x85\x94h9\x87\x94R\x94(K\x01K\x00\x85\x94h\x19\x8c\x02M8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x04h\x1dNNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK\x00}\x94(C\x02ns\x94K\x01K\x01K\x01t\x94\x86\x94t\x94b\x89C\x00\x94t\x94b}\x94\x8c\x05_freq\x94\x8c\x1bpandas._libs.tslibs.offsets\x94\x8c\x06Second\x94\x93\x94K\n\x89\x86\x94R\x94s\x87\x94bhE\x8c\ttimestamp\x94u\x86\x94R\x94e\x86\x94R\x94\x8c\x04_typ\x94\x8c\tdataframe\x94\x8c\t_metadata\x94]\x94\x8c\x05attrs\x94}\x94\x8c\x06_flags\x94}\x94\x8c\x17allows_duplicate_labels\x94\x88sub\x89t\x94}\x94\x87\x94.'
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/home/runner/work/distributed/distributed/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 94, in loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask_expr/__init__.py", line 3, in
from dask_expr import _version, datasets
File "/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask_expr/datasets.py", line 8, in
from dask_expr._collection import new_collection
File "/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask_expr/_collection.py", line 13, in
import dask.dataframe.methods as methods
ImportError: cannot import name 'dataframe' from 'dask' (/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask/__init__.py)
2024-07-11 06:14:38,905 - distributed.protocol.core - CRITICAL - Failed to deserialize
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/home/runner/work/distributed/distributed/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 175, in loads
return msgpack.loads(
File "msgpack/_unpacker.pyx", line 194, in msgpack._cmsgpack.unpackb
File "/home/runner/work/distributed/distributed/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 172, in _decode_default
return pickle.loads(sub_header["pickled-obj"], buffers=sub_frames)
File "/home/runner/work/distributed/distributed/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 94, in loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask_expr/__init__.py", line 3, in
from dask_expr import _version, datasets
File "/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask_expr/datasets.py", line 8, in
from dask_expr._collection import new_collection
File "/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask_expr/_collection.py", line 13, in
import dask.dataframe.methods as methods
ImportError: cannot import name 'dataframe' from 'dask' (/home/runner/miniconda3/envs/dask-distributed/lib/python3.9/site-packages/dask/__init__.py)
```

What's interesting is that I can reproduce this locally with a different, slightly more interesting traceback

```python-traceback
2024-07-11 12:39:54,828 - distributed.core - INFO - Starting established connection to tcp://127.0.0.1:57003
2024-07-11 12:39:54,945 - distributed.shuffle._scheduler_plugin - WARNING - Shuffle c86d91ee032fa0fad7572f33c5a71522 initialized by task ('shuffle-transfer-c86d91ee032fa0fad7572f33c5a71522', 24) executed on worker tcp://127.0.0.1:57010
/Users/fjetter/workspace/dask/dask/dataframe/__init__.py:42: FutureWarning:
Dask dataframe query planning is disabled because dask-expr is not installed.

You can install it with `pip install dask[dataframe]` or `conda install dask`.
This will raise in a future version.

warnings.warn(msg, FutureWarning)
2024-07-11 12:39:55,342 - distributed.protocol.pickle - INFO - Failed to deserialize b"\x80\x05\x95v\x04\x00\x00\x00\x00\x00\x00\x8c\x12dask_expr._shuffle\x94\x8c!AssignPartitioningIndex.operation\x94\x93\x94(\x8c0to_string_dtype-6905eb7babca4a00cd477a9aeb2e90fe\x94K'\x86\x94]\x94\x8c\x01x\x94a\x8c\x0b_partitions\x94K<\x8c\x11pandas.core.frame\x94\x8c\tDataFrame\x94\x93\x94)\x81\x94}\x94(\x8c\x04_mgr\x94\x8c\x1epandas.core.internals.managers\x94\x8c\x0cBlockManager\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x16pandas._libs.internals\x94\x8c\x0f_unpickle_block\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x13numpy._core.numeric\x94\x8c\x0b_frombuffer\x94\x93\x94(\x97\x8c\x05numpy\x94\x8c\x05dtype\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x02f8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x03\x8c\x01<\x94NNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK\x00t\x94bK\x02K\x00\x86\x94\x8c\x01C\x94t\x94R\x94\x8c\x08builtins\x94\x8c\x05slice\x94\x93\x94K\x00K\x02K\x01\x87\x94R\x94K\x02\x87\x94R\x94\x85\x94]\x94(\x8c\x18pandas.core.indexes.base\x94\x8c\n_new_Index\x94\x93\x94h,\x8c\x05Index\x94\x93\x94}\x94(\x8c\x04data\x94\x8c\x16numpy._core.multiarray\x94\x8c\x0c_reconstruct\x94\x93\x94h\x17\x8c\x07ndarray\x94\x93\x94K\x00\x85\x94C\x01b\x94\x87\x94R\x94(K\x01K\x02\x85\x94h\x19\x8c\x02O8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x03\x8c\x01|\x94NNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK?t\x94b\x89]\x94(h\x06\x8c\x01y\x94et\x94b\x8c\x04name\x94Nu\x86\x94R\x94\x8c\x1dpandas.core.indexes.datetimes\x94\x8c\x12_new_DatetimeIndex\x94\x93\x94hH\x8c\rDatetimeIndex\x94\x93\x94}\x94(h2\x8c\x13pandas._libs.arrays\x94\x8c\x1c__pyx_unpickle_NDArrayBacked\x94\x93\x94\x8c\x1cpandas.core.arrays.datetimes\x94\x8c\rDatetimeArray\x94\x93\x94J\x1f\x06\xf1\x04N\x87\x94R\x94h\x19\x8c\x02M8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x04h\x1dNNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK\x00}\x94(C\x02ns\x94K\x01K\x01K\x01t\x94\x86\x94t\x94bh5h7K\x00\x85\x94h9\x87\x94R\x94(K\x01K\x00\x85\x94h\x19\x8c\x02M8\x94\x89\x88\x87\x94R\x94(K\x04h\x1dNNNJ\xff\xff\xff\xffJ\xff\xff\xff\xffK\x00}\x94(C\x02ns\x94K\x01K\x01K\x01t\x94\x86\x94t\x94b\x89C\x00\x94t\x94b}\x94\x8c\x05_freq\x94\x8c\x1bpandas._libs.tslibs.offsets\x94\x8c\x06Second\x94\x93\x94K\n\x89\x86\x94R\x94s\x87\x94bhE\x8c\ttimestamp\x94u\x86\x94R\x94e\x86\x94R\x94\x8c\x04_typ\x94\x8c\tdataframe\x94\x8c\t_metadata\x94]\x94\x8c\x05attrs\x94}\x94\x8c\x06_flags\x94}\x94\x8c\x17allows_duplicate_labels\x94\x88sub\x89t\x94}\x94\x87\x94."
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/Users/fjetter/workspace/distributed/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 94, in loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/Users/fjetter/workspace/dask-expr/dask_expr/_shuffle.py", line 66, in
from dask_expr._repartition import Repartition, RepartitionToFewer
File "", line 1027, in _find_and_load
File "", line 1009, in _find_and_load_unlocked
KeyError: 'dask_expr'
2024-07-11 12:39:55,348 - distributed.protocol.core - CRITICAL - Failed to deserialize
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/Users/fjetter/workspace/distributed/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 175, in loads
return msgpack.loads(
File "msgpack/_unpacker.pyx", line 194, in msgpack._cmsgpack.unpackb
File "/Users/fjetter/workspace/distributed/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 172, in _decode_default
return pickle.loads(sub_header["pickled-obj"], buffers=sub_frames)
File "/Users/fjetter/workspace/distributed/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 94, in loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/Users/fjetter/workspace/dask-expr/dask_expr/_shuffle.py", line 66, in
from dask_expr._repartition import Repartition, RepartitionToFewer
File "", line 1027, in _find_and_load
File "", line 1009, in _find_and_load_unlocked
KeyError: 'dask_expr'
```