dask/distributed occasionally fails to deserialize pandas dataframe due to `AssertionError: Number of manager items must equal union of block items

**Describe the issue**:

Hi team, in our use case, task B depends on the output of task A, which is a pandas dataframe. Occasionally, dask/distributed fails to deserialize the output of task A (i.e. a pandas dataframe) while gathering dependencies for task B, causing task B to hang forever. Currently, we can fix the hanging task by killing its worker so that it is retried on another worker.

**Minimal Complete Verifiable Example**:
Unfortunately I was not able to re-create the issue in dev environment even though it has happened multiple times in our production environment.

**Anything else we need to know?**:
It would be great if tasks could be retried on deserialization errors. But that does not seem to be the case right now according to https://github.com/dask/distributed/issues/6705.

**Environment**:

- Dask version: `2024.1.0`
- Pandas version: `1.5.3`
- Python version: `3.10.8`
- Operating System: `Ubuntu 20.04.6 LTS`
- Install method (conda, pip, source): `pip`

**Stacktrace**
```
2024-03-30 04:07:23,576 - distributed.protocol.pickle - INFO - Failed to deserialize
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 71, in loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 1038, in __init__
self._verify_integrity()
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 1047, in _verify_integrity
raise AssertionError(
AssertionError: Number of manager items must equal union of block items # manager items: 891, # tot_items: 890
2024-03-30 04:07:23,581 - distributed.protocol.core - CRITICAL - Failed to deserialize
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 158, in loads return
msgpack.loads( File "msgpack/_unpacker.pyx", line 194, in msgpack._cmsgpack.unpackb
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 138, in _decode_default return
merge_and_deserialize(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/serialize.py", line 497, in merge_and_deserialize
return deserialize(header, merged_frames, deserializers=deserializers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/serialize.py", line 426, in deserialize
return loads(header, frames)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/serialize.py", line 96, in pickle_loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 71, in loads return
pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 1038, in __init__
self._verify_integrity()
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 1047, in _verify_integrity
raise AssertionError(
AssertionError: Number of manager items must equal union of block items # manager items: 891, # tot_items: 890
2024-03-30 04:07:23,582 - distributed.worker - ERROR - Number of manager items must equal union of block items # manager items: 891, # tot_items: 890
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/worker.py", line 2050, in gather_dep
response = await get_data_from_worker(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/worker.py", line 2839, in get_data_from_worker
return await retry_operation(_get_data, operation="get_data_from_worker")
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/utils_comm.py", line 386, in retry_operation
return await retry(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/utils_comm.py", line 371, in retry
return await coro()
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/worker.py", line 2819, in _get_data
response = await send_recv(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/core.py", line 928, in send_recv
response = await comm.read(deserializers=deserializers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/comm/asyncio_tcp.py", line 445, in read
return await from_frames(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/comm/utils.py", line 98, in from_frames
res = await offload(_from_frames)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/utils.py", line 1421, in offload
return await loop.run_in_executor(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/concurrent/futures/thread.py", line 58, in run
result = self.fn(*self.args, **self.kwargs)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/utils.py", line 1422, in
_offload_executor, lambda: context.run(fn, *args, **kwargs)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/comm/utils.py", line 83, in _from_frames
return protocol.loads(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 158, in loads
return msgpack.loads(
File "msgpack/_unpacker.pyx", line 194, in msgpack._cmsgpack.unpackb
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/core.py", line 138, in _decode_default
return merge_and_deserialize(
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/serialize.py", line 497, in merge_and_deserialize
return deserialize(header, merged_frames, deserializers=deserializers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/serialize.py", line 426, in deserialize
return loads(header, frames)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/serialize.py", line 96, in pickle_loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/distributed/protocol/pickle.py", line 71, in loads
return pickle.loads(x, buffers=buffers)
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 1038, in __init__
self._verify_integrity()
File "/opt/conda/envs/custom/lib/python3.10/site-packages/pandas/core/internals/managers.py", line 1047, in _verify_integrity
raise AssertionError(
AssertionError: Number of manager items must equal union of block items # manager items: 891, # tot_items: 890
```