operators to replace "== null" and "!= null"

Dart already provides the beloved and very useful NULL-aware operators ??, ??= and ?.

I'd really like to see operators to replace the tedious "== null" and "!= null" comparisons.

Something along the lines of:
```dart
if (??nullableObject) callFoo();
if (!?nullableObject) callFoo();
```

Review the proposed ??nullableObject and !?nullableObject forms and the issue discussion first. No file, test, or entry point is named; the work is complete only after the desired operators and their behavior are agreed and the relevant Dart language specification updates are identified.

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