MacOS: Saving to vault freezes cryptomator and hangs os

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### Summary

critical bug - writing to disks freezes cryptomator

### What software is involved?

- Operating System: Mac OS Ventura 13.5.1
- Cryptomator: 1.9.4
- latest fuse-t installed via brew 1.0.27

Might be related to https://github.com/cryptomator/cryptomator/issues/1878

### Volume Type

None

### Steps to Reproduce

copy a file into vault using finder
copy freezes

### Expected Behavior

no freeze

### Actual Behavior

cannot cancel operation
cryptomator and finder freezes
cannot quit cryptomator
cannot restart mac. can only hard poweroff laptop to resume normal functionality

### Reproducibility

Intermittent, but it happens often

### Relevant Log Output

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### Anything else?

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