volume gets destroyed and recreated when adding a new stanza to docker-compose.yml

**Describe the bug**
Podman volume gets nuked and recreated when adding a new stanza to a docker-compose file.

**To Reproduce**

Here is my docker-compose.yml file

```
version: "3.9"
services:

mysql8:
restart: always
image: percona/percona-server:8.0.33-aarch64
volumes:
- ./config/my_dev8.cnf:/etc/my.cnf.d/my_dev.cnf
- mysql8-good-data:/usr/local/mysql/data/
environment:
MYSQL_ALLOW_EMPTY_PASSWORD: 1
MYSQL_ROOT_HOST: '%'
ports:
- "4306:3306"

volumes:
mysql8-good-data:
external: false
```

Create new DB in mysql

```
mysql -uroot -P4306
Welcome to the MySQL monitor. Commands end with ; or \g.
Your MySQL connection id is 8
Server version: 8.0.33-25 Percona Server (GPL), Release 25, Revision 60c9e2c5

Copyright (c) 2000, 2023, Oracle and/or its affiliates.

Oracle is a registered trademark of Oracle Corporation and/or its
affiliates. Other names may be trademarks of their respective
owners.

Type 'help;' or '\h' for help. Type '\c' to clear the current input statement.

mysql>
mysql>
mysql> create database user_database;
Query OK, 1 row affected (0.03 sec)

mysql> show databases;
+--------------------+
| Database |
+--------------------+
| information_schema |
| mysql |
| performance_schema |
| sys |
| user_database |
+--------------------+
5 rows in set (0.00 sec)
```

Now add new stanza to docker-compose and run podman-compose up

```
version: "3.9"
services:

mysql8:
restart: always
image: percona/percona-server:8.0.33-aarch64
volumes:
- ./config/my_dev8.cnf:/etc/my.cnf.d/my_dev.cnf
- mysql8-good-data:/usr/local/mysql/data/
environment:
MYSQL_ALLOW_EMPTY_PASSWORD: 1
MYSQL_ROOT_HOST: '%'
ports:
- "4306:3306"

mongodb:
restart: always
image: mongo:4.4.2
volumes:
- ./db/:/db-backup/
- mongodb-good-data:/usr/local/var/mongodb
ports:
- "27017:27017"

volumes:
mysql8-good-data:
external: false
mongodb-good-data:
external: false
```

podman-compose -f docker-compose.arm64.yml up -d

Now go back into mysql and see that the database was deleted

```
10:11:48 anandsiva ~/work/podman_bug $ mysql -uroot -P4306
Welcome to the MySQL monitor. Commands end with ; or \g.
Your MySQL connection id is 8
Server version: 8.0.33-25 Percona Server (GPL), Release 25, Revision 60c9e2c5

Copyright (c) 2000, 2023, Oracle and/or its affiliates.

Oracle is a registered trademark of Oracle Corporation and/or its
affiliates. Other names may be trademarks of their respective
owners.

Type 'help;' or '\h' for help. Type '\c' to clear the current input statement.

mysql> show databases;
+--------------------+
| Database |
+--------------------+
| information_schema |
| mysql |
| performance_schema |
| sys |
+--------------------+
4 rows in set (0.00 sec)
```

**Expected behavior**
I expect that the volume podman_bug_mysql8-good-data not to be deleted and recreated. Even in the output command you see it is trying to check for the volume and only recreate if it does not exist

podman volume inspect podman_bug_mysql8-good-data || podman volume create podman_bug_mysql8-good-data
['podman', 'volume', 'inspect', 'podman_bug_mysql8-good-data']

**Actual behavior**
What happens is that the volume podman_bug_mysql8-good-data gets recreated and my data is wiped out. The default should be that the volumes do not get deleted unless you send -v to delete volume

**Output**

```
podman-compose and podman version

podman-compose version
podman-compose version: 1.0.6
['podman', '--version', '']
using podman version: 4.5.1
podman-compose version 1.0.6
podman --version
podman version 4.5.1
exit code: 0

podman version

Client: Podman Engine
Version: 4.5.1
API Version: 4.5.1
Go Version: go1.20.6
Git Commit: 9eef30051c83f62816a1772a743e5f1271b196d7
Built: Fri May 26 11:10:12 2023
OS/Arch: darwin/arm64

Server: Podman Engine
Version: 4.6.2
API Version: 4.6.2
Go Version: go1.20.7
Built: Mon Aug 28 15:39:14 2023
OS/Arch: linux/arm64

podman info
host:
arch: arm64
buildahVersion: 1.31.2
cgroupControllers:
- cpuset
- cpu
- io
- memory
- pids
- rdma
- misc
cgroupManager: systemd
cgroupVersion: v2
conmon:
package: conmon-2.1.7-2.fc38.aarch64
path: /usr/bin/conmon
version: 'conmon version 2.1.7, commit: '
cpuUtilization:
idlePercent: 99.78
systemPercent: 0.09
userPercent: 0.13
cpus: 12
databaseBackend: boltdb
distribution:
distribution: fedora
variant: coreos
version: "38"
eventLogger: journald
hostname: localhost.localdomain
idMappings:
gidmap: null
uidmap: null
kernel: 6.4.12-200.fc38.aarch64
linkmode: dynamic
logDriver: journald
memFree: 7300136960
memTotal: 12234739712
networkBackend: netavark
ociRuntime:
name: crun
package: crun-1.8.7-1.fc38.aarch64
path: /usr/bin/crun
version: |-
crun version 1.8.7
commit: 53a9996ce82d1ee818349bdcc64797a1fa0433c4
rundir: /run/crun
spec: 1.0.0
+SYSTEMD +SELINUX +APPARMOR +CAP +SECCOMP +EBPF +CRIU +LIBKRUN +WASM:wasmedge +YAJL
os: linux
remoteSocket:
exists: true
path: /run/podman/podman.sock
security:
apparmorEnabled: false
capabilities: CAP_CHOWN,CAP_DAC_OVERRIDE,CAP_FOWNER,CAP_FSETID,CAP_KILL,CAP_NET_BIND_SERVICE,CAP_SETFCAP,CAP_SETGID,CAP_SETPCAP,CAP_SETUID,CAP_SYS_CHROOT
rootless: false
seccompEnabled: true
seccompProfilePath: /usr/share/containers/seccomp.json
selinuxEnabled: true
serviceIsRemote: true
slirp4netns:
executable: /usr/bin/slirp4netns
package: slirp4netns-1.2.1-1.fc38.aarch64
version: |-
slirp4netns version 1.2.1
commit: 09e31e92fa3d2a1d3ca261adaeb012c8d75a8194
libslirp: 4.7.0
SLIRP_CONFIG_VERSION_MAX: 4
libseccomp: 2.5.3
swapFree: 0
swapTotal: 0
uptime: 2h 52m 19.00s (Approximately 0.08 days)
plugins:
authorization: null
log:
- k8s-file
- none
- passthrough
- journald
network:
- bridge
- macvlan
- ipvlan
volume:
- local
registries:
search:
- docker.io
store:
configFile: /usr/share/containers/storage.conf
containerStore:
number: 7
paused: 0
running: 6
stopped: 1
graphDriverName: overlay
graphOptions:
overlay.mountopt: nodev,metacopy=on
graphRoot: /var/lib/containers/storage
graphRootAllocated: 321427587072
graphRootUsed: 18268368896
graphStatus:
Backing Filesystem: xfs
Native Overlay Diff: "false"
Supports d_type: "true"
Using metacopy: "true"
imageCopyTmpDir: /var/tmp
imageStore:
number: 17
runRoot: /run/containers/storage
transientStore: false
volumePath: /var/lib/containers/storage/volumes
version:
APIVersion: 4.6.2
Built: 1693251554
BuiltTime: Mon Aug 28 15:39:14 2023
GitCommit: ""
GoVersion: go1.20.7
Os: linux
OsArch: linux/arm64
Version: 4.6.2