JetBrains IntelliJ IDEA does not work well with podman-compose

**Describe the bug**

IntelliJ IDEA and its Docker plugin support Docker Compose and managing services using compose files (cf. https://www.jetbrains.com/help/idea/docker-compose.html).

When pointing it at `podman-compose` instead (or swapping out `docker-compose` for `podman-compose` by means of `ln -s /usr/bin/podman-compose ~/bin/docker-compose`; `$HOME/bin` is on the `$PATH`), it can start ("up") and stop ("down") services, but the interaction is generally very poor:
* It says it is bringing the "deployment" up, but shows the ready container count as "0/0" and the spinner keeps spinning.
* It does not show the "bundle" (my words) of services.
* It does not link the output of a specific service to that container.

Other things, like opening a "Terminal" to one of the containers, seem to work without any obvious problems.

**Output**

```
❯ podman-compose version
podman-compose version: 1.0.6
['podman', '--version', '']
using podman version: 4.5.0
podman-compose version 1.0.6
podman --version
podman version 4.5.0
exit code: 0

❯ dnf info docker-compose podman-compose
Last metadata expiration check: 0:00:11 ago on Wed May 31 17:31:55 2023.
Installed Packages
Name : docker-compose
Version : 1.29.2
Release : 7.fc38
Architecture : noarch
Size : 1.1 M
Source : docker-compose-1.29.2-7.fc38.src.rpm
Repository : @System
From repo : fedora
Summary : Multi-container orchestration for Docker
URL : https://github.com/docker/compose
License : ASL 2.0
Description : Compose is a tool for defining and running multi-container Docker
: applications. With Compose, you use a Compose file to configure your
: application's services. Then, using a single command, you create and
: start all the services from your configuration.
:
: Compose is great for development, testing, and staging environments,
: as well as CI workflows.
:
: Using Compose is basically a three-step process.
:
: 1. Define your app's environment with a Dockerfile so it can be
: reproduced anywhere.
: 2. Define the services that make up your app in docker-compose.yml so
: they can be run together in an isolated environment:
: 3. Lastly, run docker-compose up and Compose will start and run your
: entire app.

Name : podman-compose
Version : 1.0.6
Release : 1.fc38
Architecture : noarch
Size : 300 k
Source : podman-compose-1.0.6-1.fc38.src.rpm
Repository : @System
From repo : updates
Summary : Run docker-compose.yml using podman
URL : https://github.com/containers/podman-compose
License : GPL-2.0-only
Description : An implementation of docker-compose with podman backend.
: The main objective of this project is to be able to run docker-compose.yml
: unmodified and rootless.
```

**Environment:**
- OS: Linux
- podman version: 4.5.0
- podman compose version: 1.0.6
- JetBrains IntelliJ IDEA: 2023.1.2 (Ultimate)
- JetBrains IntelliJ IDEA Docker plugin: bundled 231.9011.34