Fix and re-enable [win and py>39] builds

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### Issue

[win and py>39] builds are now temporarily disabled because of an issue with the Windows Python 3.10 build. See https://github.com/conda-forge/openmesh-python-feedstock/pull/12/commits/d3b077f89f85df86328d91f0069170cf8e884420 and https://github.com/conda-forge/openmesh-python-feedstock/pull/10#issuecomment-1032094295.
Fixing this apparently requires a small change to the pybind11 git submodule that is used by the openmesh-python build (https://stackoverflow.com/a/35368387 ?). Any help is welcome. Perhaps this should be reported as a bug in pybind11 or openmesh-python, depending on if pybind11 has already fixed this in newer versions (TODO: find that out).

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