cdc query does not apply projection to previous value

Consider the following table schema and sequence of changefeed messages:

```
create table t (pk int primary key using hash, a int not null, b int not null not visible);
upsert into t (pk,a,b) values (2,4,4);
upsert into t (pk,a,b) values (2,5,5);
delete from t where pk=2;
```

```
create changefeed with envelope='wrapped', diff as select *, crdb_internal_pk_shard_16 from t ;
{"key":"[6, 2]","table":"t","value":"{\"after\": {\"a\": 4, \"crdb_internal_pk_shard_16\": 6, \"pk\": 2}, \"before\": null}"}
{"key":"[6, 2]","table":"t","value":"{\"after\": {\"a\": 5, \"crdb_internal_pk_shard_16\": 6, \"pk\": 2}, \"before\": {\"a\": 4, \"b\": 4, \"pk\": 2}}"}
{"key":"[6, 2]","table":"t","value":"{\"after\": null, \"before\": {\"a\": 5, \"b\": 5, \"pk\": 2}}"}
```

The `before` block always emits the previous row value and not the requested projection. This is problematic in use cases where a projected value is required to successfully process a deletion.

Also note that the not-visible `b` column is present in the `before` value.

Jira issue: CRDB-42726

Epic CRDB-41786