🐛 BUG: `wrangler d1` commands shouldn't read wrangler.toml if executing remotely

### Which Cloudflare product(s) does this pertain to?

D1

### What version(s) of the tool(s) are you using?

latest

### What version of Node are you using?

latest

### What operating system and version are you using?

Mac

### Describe the Bug

If the user copies a correct config (known-good `database_name` and `database_id`) into wrangler.toml, and later changes the name without updating the id, wrangler will naively use the `database_id` provided - instead we should reach out to D1 each time to get that name's id.

This can also happen if they delete the DB via wrangler command and recreate it with the same name, forgetting to update wrangler.toml, as in https://github.com/cloudflare/workers-sdk/issues/3438

### Please provide a link to a minimal reproduction

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### Please provide any relevant error logs

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