Deploy failure tolerance knobs

**Describe the problem/challenge you have**

For certain deploys your tolerance will be low for container restarts. It should be possible to exit out of the deploy early, but also include configurable behaviour to adjust timeout/tolerance.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
Similar to wait behaviours there should be health criteria for `kapp` to honor. For instance the number of restarts tolerated for containers in a pod.

**Anything else you would like to add:**
`kapp` is great, easy to get going. I'm happy about how it works on many levels.

Slack thread for context:

https://kubernetes.slack.com/archives/CH8KCCKA5/p1635440293215900

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