refactor(snackbar): modernize layout and action API

Refactor SnackBar to improve Material Design 3 compliance, remove problematic children patterns, improve performance characteristics, and modernize the public API.

**Problems**

- Current API relies heavily on children composition in ways that are difficult to optimize
- Internal layout logic is tightly coupled to arbitrary child structures
- MD3 behaviors and visuals are not fully aligned with current Material guidelines
- Rendering performance can degrade in large lists or frequently updated screens
- Type safety and discoverability of the API can be improved
- The component has inconsistent behavior between platforms and edge cases

**Focus Areas**

- Improve action rendering model
- Improve responsiveness and multiline behavior
- Improve MD3 tonal surface handling
- Improve animation consistency

**Proposed API Direction**

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**Performance Opportunities**

- Reduce animated subtree complexity
- Improve portal rendering behavior
- Reduce unnecessary visibility transitions