Measuring custom tab bar height fails for absolutely‑positioned elements

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### Bug summary

When using a custom tab bar with [react-native-bottom-tabs](https://github.com/react-navigation/react-native-bottom-tabs), the library measures the tab bar height like this(in `TabView`):

```js
useLayoutEffect(() => {
if (renderCustomTabBar && customTabBarWrapperRef.current) {
customTabBarWrapperRef.current.measure((_x, _y, _width, height) => {
setTabBarHeight(height);
});
}
}, [renderCustomTabBar]);

// …

{renderCustomTabBar ? (

{renderCustomTabBar()}

) : null}
```

This works for most layouts, but **breaks** whenever the returned element is **absolutely positioned**, since absolutely‑positioned children don’t contribute to their parent’s measured size.

### Library version

0.0.13

### Environment info

```shell
I use expo
```

### Steps to reproduce

1. Set up a bottom‑tabs navigator.

2. Provide a `renderCustomTabBar` that returns:

```jsx

{/* … */}

```

3. Observe that `setTabBarHeight` is called with `0` (or an incorrect value).

### Reproducible sample code

```js
none
```