[aws-load-balancer-controller] Webhooks allow update failurePolicy

**Is your feature request related to a problem?**
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Allow to be able to update the failurePolicy on webhooks

Currently experiencing the same as issue [433](https://github.com/aws/eks-charts/issues/433)

Reference
https://github.com/aws/eks-charts/blob/master/stable/aws-load-balancer-controller/templates/webhook.yaml#L22
https://github.com/aws/eks-charts/issues/433

**Is your feature request related to a specific Helm chart, if yes mention name of the chart?**
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aws-load-balancer-controller

**Describe the solution you'd like**
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An option to allow to update webhooks failurePolicy

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
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Start with stable/aws-load-balancer-controller/templates/webhook.yaml#L22 and review issue 433 for the expected behavior. Trace how this chart exposes configurable webhook settings, then make failurePolicy updateable through the chart configuration; done means the rendered webhook manifest uses the selected policy.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.