EKSA Bare Metal: K8s Upgrade failing on self managed 4 node cluster as one of machines.cluster.x-k8s.io stuck in phase Provisioning despite the node completing tinkerbell workflow successfully and joining the cluster

**What happened**: K8s Upgrade failed on self managed 4 node cluster (1 cp, 3 workers) as one of workers machines.cluster.x-k8s.io stuck in phase Provisioning despite the node completing tinkerbell workflow successfully and joining the cluster

**What you expected to happen**: K8s upgrade to go through successfully

**How to reproduce it (as minimally and precisely as possible)**:

Provision a 4 node cluster (1 cp, 3 workers) using K8s 1.23. eksctl anywhere version 0.16.1
Add two spare hardwares - 1 cp and 1 for worker

Upgrade to k8s 1.24 using
```
eksctl anywhere upgrade cluster --no-timeouts --filename cluster-upgrade.yaml --force-cleanup
```

Nodes go through rolling upgrade. A existing worker node stuck in Provisioning Phase : **eksabm1-dp-n-2** even though it joined cluster ok . eksctl anywhere upgrade cluster command never finishes. Cluster crds are stuck on bootstrap cluster and worker cluster is unmanageable until upgrade completes.

**From bootstrap Kind cluster** :

```
# kubectl get machines.c -A

NAMESPACE NAME CLUSTER NODENAME PROVIDERID PHASE AGE VERSION
eksa-system eksupr2-mz2gc eksupr2 eksupr2-mz2gc tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-cp-n-2 Running 51m v1.24.13-eks-1-24-18
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-6956984fb8x5dnd9-hmxsr eksupr2 eksupr2-ng1-6956984fb8x5dnd9-hmxsr tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-3 Running 51m v1.23.17-eks-1-23-23
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-7wdjt eksupr2 eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-7wdjt tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-4 Running 41m v1.24.13-eks-1-24-18
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-msxrr eksupr2 Provisioning 18m v1.24.13-eks-1-24-18
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-vtgck eksupr2 eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-vtgck tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-1 Running 32m v1.24.13-eks-1-24-18
```

```
# kubectl get tinkerbellmachines -A
NAMESPACE NAME CLUSTER STATE READY INSTANCEID MACHINE
eksa-system eksupr2-control-plane-template-1688724473017-rxzg4 eksupr2 true tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-cp-n-2 eksupr2-mz2gc
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688720116994-c2sp5 eksupr2 true tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-3 eksupr2-ng1-6956984fb8x5dnd9-hmxsr
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-ttdf7 eksupr2 true tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-1 eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-vtgck
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-txchw eksupr2 tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-2 eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-msxrr
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-zm8gm eksupr2 true tinkerbell://eksa-system/eksabm1-dp-n-4 eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-7wdjt

```

```
# kubectl get hardware -A
NAMESPACE NAME STATE
eksa-system eksabm1-cp-n-1 <<<--- Original CP node
eksa-system eksabm1-cp-n-2 <<<--- Spare CP node added
eksa-system eksabm1-dp-n-1. <<<--- Original worker node
eksa-system eksabm1-dp-n-2. <<<--- Original worker node
eksa-system eksabm1-dp-n-3. <<<--- Original worker node
eksa-system eksabm1-dp-n-4. <<<--- Spare worker node added

```
```
# kubectl get kcp -A
NAMESPACE NAME CLUSTER INITIALIZED API SERVER AVAILABLE REPLICAS READY UPDATED UNAVAILABLE AGE VERSION
eksa-system eksupr2 eksupr2 true true 1 1 1 0 51m v1.24.13-eks-1-24-18
```

```
# kubectl get md -A
NAMESPACE NAME CLUSTER REPLICAS READY UPDATED UNAVAILABLE PHASE AGE VERSION
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1 eksupr2 4 3 3 1 Running 51m v1.24.13-eks-1-24-18
```

```
# kubectl get workflows -A
NAMESPACE NAME TEMPLATE STATE
eksa-system eksupr2-control-plane-template-1688724473017-rxzg4 eksupr2-control-plane-template-1688724473017-rxzg4 STATE_SUCCESS
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-c2awd eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-c2awd STATE_SUCCESS
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-txchw eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-txchw STATE_SUCCESS
eksa-system eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-zm8gm eksupr2-ng1-1688724473433-zm8gm STATE_SUCCESS
```

**From workload cluster** :

```
# kubectl get nodes
NAME STATUS ROLES AGE VERSION
eksupr2-mz2gc Ready control-plane 45m v1.24.12-eks-76dc719
eksupr2-ng1-6956984fb8x5dnd9-hmxsr Ready 81m v1.23.17-eks-712c388
eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-7wdjt Ready 37m v1.24.12-eks-76dc719
eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-msxrr Ready 2m57s v1.24.12-eks-76dc719. <<<<<------ Problem node Joined cluster ok
eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-vtgck Ready 24m v1.24.12-eks-76dc719
```

**Anything else we need to know?**:

[cluster-upgrade.yaml.txt](https://github.com/aws/eks-anywhere/files/11981838/cluster-upgrade.yaml.txt)
[hardware.csv.txt](https://github.com/aws/eks-anywhere/files/11981839/hardware.csv.txt)
[hardware-upgrade.csv.txt](https://github.com/aws/eks-anywhere/files/11981840/hardware-upgrade.csv.txt)
[cluster.yaml.txt ](https://github.com/aws/eks-anywhere/files/11981841/cluster.yaml.txt)

[cli.log.txt](https://github.com/aws/eks-anywhere/files/11981994/cli.log.txt)

**Environment**:
- EKS Anywhere Release: 0.16.1
- EKS Distro Release:

Start by reviewing cli.log.txt and reproducing the upgrade with cluster-upgrade.yaml.txt, then inspect the bootstrap cluster's Machine, TinkerbellMachine, Hardware, MachineDeployment, KCP, and Workflow resources. Compare the stuck eksupr2-ng1-865d944788xkpz9x-msxrr resource with the successful workflows and joined workload-cluster node; done means the worker Machine reaches Running and the upgrade command completes.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.