kind cluster deletion failed after upgrade

**What happened**:
Attempted upgrade of management cluster managing 100 workload clusters. After the upgrade finished, the CLI attempted to delete the kind cluster and I saw
```
2022-11-07T16:51:35.082-0500 V4 Task start {"task_name": "delete-kind-cluster"}
2022-11-07T16:51:35.083-0500 V6 Executing command {"cmd": "/usr/local/bin/docker exec -i eksa_1667850170484856000 kind get clusters"}
2022-11-07T16:51:37.088-0500 V5 Executed kind get clusters {"response": "baseline-test-eks-a-cluster\n"}
2022-11-07T16:51:37.102-0500 V6 Executing command {"cmd": "/usr/local/bin/docker exec -i eksa_1667850170484856000 kubectl get crd clusters.cluster.x-k8s.io --kubeconfig baseline-test/generated/baseline-test.kind.kubeconfig"}
2022-11-07T16:51:40.678-0500 V6 Executing command {"cmd": "/usr/local/bin/docker exec -i eksa_1667850170484856000 kubectl get clusters.cluster.x-k8s.io -o json --kubeconfig baseline-test/generated/baseline-test.kind.kubeconfig --namespace eksa-system"}
2022-11-07T16:51:43.015-0500 V4 Deleting kind cluster {"name": "baseline-test-eks-a-cluster"}
2022-11-07T16:51:43.016-0500 V6 Executing command {"cmd": "/usr/local/bin/docker exec -i eksa_1667850170484856000 kind delete cluster --name baseline-test-eks-a-cluster"}
2022-11-07T16:52:00.397-0500 V9 docker {"stderr": "Deleting cluster \"baseline-test-eks-a-cluster\" ...\nERROR: failed to delete cluster \"baseline-test-eks-a-cluster\": failed to delete nodes: command \"docker rm -f -v baseline-test-eks-a-cluster-control-plane\" failed with error: exit status 1\n\nCommand Output: Error response from daemon: Could not kill running container 43583218989e74a806e9bc89a45e2b4ab59080b72c23854fa595ccd68409165a, cannot remove - tried to kill container, but did not receive an exit event\n"}
2022-11-07T16:52:00.398-0500 V4 Task finished {"task_name": "delete-kind-cluster", "duration": "25.31542549s"}
2022-11-07T16:52:00.398-0500 V4 ----------------------------------
2022-11-07T16:52:00.398-0500 V4 Saving checkpoint {"file": "baseline-test-checkpoint.yaml"}
2022-11-07T16:52:00.483-0500 V4 Tasks completed {"duration": "2h9m8.135509472s"}
2022-11-07T16:52:00.487-0500 V3 Cleaning up long running container {"name": "eksa_1667850170484856000"}
2022-11-07T16:52:00.487-0500 V6 Executing command {"cmd": "/usr/local/bin/docker rm -f -v eksa_1667850170484856000"}
Error: failed to upgrade cluster: executing delete cluster: Deleting cluster "baseline-test-eks-a-cluster" ...
ERROR: failed to delete cluster "baseline-test-eks-a-cluster": failed to delete nodes: command "docker rm -f -v baseline-test-eks-a-cluster-control-plane" failed with error: exit status 1

Command Output: Error response from daemon: Could not kill running container 43583218989e74a806e9bc89a45e2b4ab59080b72c23854fa595ccd68409165a, cannot remove - tried to kill container, but did not receive an exit event

```

I then manually retried deleting the kind cluster and it succeeded

**What you expected to happen**:
I would expect this kind cluster deletion to succeed on the first try, or else retry several times

**How to reproduce it (as minimally and precisely as possible)**:
Upgrade a management cluster managing many EKS-A/CAPI resources

**Anything else we need to know?**:

**Environment**:
- EKS Anywhere Release: 0.12.0 to 0.12.1 with CloudStack provider
- EKS Distro Release:

Start at the upgrade workflow's `delete-kind-cluster` task and the `kind delete cluster` command shown in the logs. Reproduce an upgrade of a management cluster with many EKS-A/CAPI resources, then trace the deletion failure and retry behavior. Done means the kind cluster deletion succeeds on the first try or is retried until it succeeds.

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