Add an option to disable retries on UnknownHostException

### Describe the bug

See #4738

The S3A connector doesn't want to retry on unknown host exception on the following basis: the host is unknown. While from the AWS perspective this may seem a transient problem, it's generally isn't.
* third-party stores with custom endpoints usually hit this when the endpoint what is URL is misconfigured. This is the configuration problem which will not be recovered from.
* region-based derivation of endpoints is brittle to the region being misconfigured. Again, retries achieve nothing here.
* Attempting to use an s3express bucket with a region which doesn't support it will trigger retries of the crate session API. And this will not resolved until AWS rolls out of that storage class that region.

### Expected Behavior

attempts to connect to an endpoint which trigger UnknownHostException to fail fast and let our application logic decide what to do (for us: fail)

### Current Behavior

* Api Call attempt is retried
* If too many retries are attempted for the api call timeout: failure with loss of inner cause
* S3AFS currently treats ApiCallTimeoutException as recoverable; we may need to revisit this.

### Reproduction Steps

See [HADOOP-19000](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HADOOP-19000) for this surfacing connecting to S3Express buckets.

### Possible Solution

client builder to allow us to disable treating unknownHostException as something SDK should retry on.

### Additional Information/Context

_No response_

### AWS Java SDK version used

2.21.33

### JDK version used

openjdk version "1.8.0_362" OpenJDK Runtime Environment (Zulu 8.68.0.21-CA-macos-aarch64) (build 1.8.0_362-b09) OpenJDK 64-Bit Server VM (Zulu 8.68.0.21-CA-macos-aarch64) (build 25.362-b09, mixed mode

### Operating System and version

macos 13.4.1