EMFILE and EBUSY errors in node 20

**Describe the bug**
When switching from node 18 to node 20 we noticed a lot of EMFILE and EBUSY that we never had before.

**To Reproduce**
This is really hard to reproduce it only happens sometimes when making network requests.

**Expected behavior**
No error to appear

**Logs**
```JSON
{"errorType":"Error","errorMessage":"getaddrinfo EBUSY track-eu.customer.io","code":"EBUSY","errno":-16,"syscall":"getaddrinfo","hostname":"track-eu.customer.io","stack":["Error: getaddrinfo EBUSY track-eu.customer.io"," at __node_internal_captureLargerStackTrace (node:internal/errors:497:5)"," at __node_internal_ (node:internal/errors:716:10)"," at GetAddrInfoReqWrap.onlookupall [as oncomplete] (node:dns:118:26)"]}
```
```JSON
{"status":"error","message":"datadog:Failed to flush extension. connect EMFILE 127.0.0.1:8124 - Local (undefined:undefined)"}
```

**Platform (please complete the following information):**
node20 x86_64

**Additional context**
Not sure if this an issue with the image or the lambda runtime so please let me know if another repo makes more sense