aws-ecs: Resource handler returned message: "Invalid request provided: The target group with targetGroupArn <redacted> does not have an associated load balancer."

### Describe the bug

With [this](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/issues/5583#issuecomment-2825719363) workaround for redirecting HTTP to HTTPS on an ALB, I indeterminately experience the following:

```text
CoreStackDev | 28/70 | 5:02:27 PM | UPDATE_FAILED | AWS::ECS::Service | WebAppSvc/FlaskAppService/ControlPlane/ApplicationLoadBalancerFargateSvc/AlbFargateSvc/Service/Service (WebAppSvcFlaskAppServiceControlPlaneApplicationLoadBalancerFargateSvcAlbFargateSvcServiceADE54F9D) Resource handler returned message: "Invalid request provided: The target group with targetGroupArn does not have an associated load balancer. (Service: Ecs, Status Code: 400, Request ID: 91fd6146-d2f3-4534-bbdb-893469be2a1d) (SDK Attempt Count: 1)" (RequestToken: 25bc3e51-6110-4b81-8256-f4c02c60a863, HandlerErrorCode: InvalidRequest)
```

I tested redeploying multiple times (and changing the ECS Service, ALB, Task definition logicalids to recreate the resources) to no avail.

It looks like there's either:
1. A race condition ([regression](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/issues/1160))? somewhere. What's strange is this was working fine for a few days with multiple successful redeployments in between the original deployment and experiencing the error.
2. Some other reason why cloudformation thinks an old ALB target group exists when it does not

After removing the listener redirection (`lb.ListenerAction.redirect`) the deployment succeeded again.

My [ticket](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/issues/34235) is related.

### Regression Issue

- [ ] Select this option if this issue appears to be a regression.

### Last Known Working CDK Version

_No response_

### Expected Behavior

Successful deployment

### Current Behavior

Indeterminate `Invalid request provided: The target group with targetGroupArn does not have an associated load balancer.`

### Reproduction Steps

1. Deploy an ALB with `ecs_patterns.ApplicationLoadBalancedFargateService` with `protocol=lb.ApplicationProtocol.HTTP`,
2. Use this [workaround](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/issues/5583#issuecomment-2825719363) to redirect `HTTP` to `HTTPS`and deploy
3. Deploy a few times...
4. Maybe experience error?

### Possible Solution

_No response_

### Additional Information/Context

```json
"userAgent": "cloudformation.amazonaws.com",
"errorCode": "InvalidParameterException",
"errorMessage": "The target group with /CoreSt-WebAp-OBAY5UVSDTFW/5f79f6f39969fa92 does not have an associated load balancer.",
"requestParameters": {
"capacityProviderStrategy": [
{
"capacityProvider": "FARGATE",
"weight": 1,
"base": 1
}
],
"cluster": "CoreStackDev-WebAppSvcFlaskAppServiceControlPlaneEcsClusterSvcEcsClusterEcsClusterSvcB291F355-xtUAqFpdBbkj",
"deploymentConfiguration": {
"deploymentCircuitBreaker": {
"enable": true,
"rollback": true
},
"maximumPercent": 200,
"minimumHealthyPercent": 100,
"alarms": {
"rollback": false,
"enable": false
}
},
"desiredCount": 1,
"enableECSManagedTags": true,
"enableExecuteCommand": true,
"availabilityZoneRebalancing": "DISABLED",
"forceNewDeployment": false,
"healthCheckGracePeriodSeconds": 60,
"loadBalancers": [
{
"targetGroupArn": "/CoreSt-WebAp-OBAY5UVSDTFW/5f79f6f39969fa92",
"containerName": "EcsTaskDefContainerSvcEcsContainerDef",
"containerPort": 80
},
{
"targetGroupArn": "/CoreSt-WebAp-XB77YZBVGDH8/559a5660e756f528",
"containerName": "EcsTaskDefContainerSvcEcsContainerDef",
"containerPort": 80
}
],
```

### CDK CLI Version

2.180.0

### Framework Version

_No response_

### Node.js Version

v22.12.0

### OS

Mac

### Language

Python

### Language Version

_No response_

### Other information

_No response_