core.DockerBuildOptions: add option for pass flags to docker build command

### Describe the feature

I'd like to pass flags to docker build, i.e. `-q` to suppress output, using `DockerBuildOptions`

### Use Case

I want to suppress log output by passing `-q` flag to docker build options.

### Proposed Solution

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### Other Information

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### Acknowledgements

- [ ] I may be able to implement this feature request
- [ ] This feature might incur a breaking change

### CDK version used

2.150.0

### Environment details (OS name and version, etc.)

macOS Sonoma 14.5

Locate DockerBuildOptions and the entry point that assembles the docker build command, then inspect nearby tests for option handling. Done means callers can provide build flags such as -q through DockerBuildOptions and the behavior is covered by tests.

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