aws-eks: neuron device plugin manifest better reference

### Describe the bug

the neuron device plugin addon used in the cdk uses a custom manifest, see here: https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/f3d74bb78189ec6b76cfa85c97d993c1b26c1cac/packages/aws-cdk-lib/aws-eks/lib/cluster.ts#L1979
which is NOT pointing to the official neuron image (public.ecr.aws/neuron/neuron-device-plugin)
and rbac is missing
going into crashloopback and preventing metrics to be exposed

### Expected Behavior

the right files are used

### Current Behavior

crashloopback on deployment of inf2.xlarge

### Reproduction Steps

deploy on inf2

### Possible Solution

the neuron device plugin addon used in the cdk uses a custom manifest, see here: https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/f3d74bb78189ec6b76cfa85c97d993c1b26c1cac/packages/aws-cdk-lib/aws-eks/lib/cluster.ts#L1979
while there is a better existing reference from the Neuron, see description here: https://awsdocs-neuron.readthedocs-hosted.com/en/latest/containers/tutorials/k8s-setup.html

the yaml to use is https://raw.githubusercontent.com/aws-neuron/aws-neuron-sdk/master/src/k8/k8s-neuron-device-plugin.yml
and also rbac needs to be used which is not in the current implementation
const RBAC_URL = "https://raw.githubusercontent.com/aws-neuron/aws-neuron-sdk/master/src/k8/k8s-neuron-device-plugin-rbac.yml

### Additional Information/Context

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### CDK CLI Version

2.130.0

### Framework Version

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### Node.js Version

v20.4.0

### OS

sonoma 14.3

### Language

TypeScript

### Language Version

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### Other information

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Start at packages/aws-cdk-lib/aws-eks/lib/cluster.ts around the manifest referenced near line 1979. Compare the current custom manifest with aws-neuron-sdk/src/k8/k8s-neuron-device-plugin.yml and k8s-neuron-device-plugin-rbac.yml, then reproduce on an inf2.xlarge cluster. Done means the addon deploys without a crash loop and exposes the expected metrics.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.