aws-s3: eventBridgeEnabled not working as expected.

### Describe the bug

Take this simple example :

`
const bucket = new s3.Bucket(this, 'MyEventBridgeBucket', {
eventBridgeEnabled: true,
});
`

CDK is supposed to enable only event bridge notification. It is available on UI as "Send notifications to Amazon EventBridge for all events in this bucket" but instead CDK is creating IAM role + Policy, Lambda function which I have not defined anywhere and do not want.

### Expected Behavior

Expected behaviour should be S3 bucket creation with event bridge notification enabled without extra IAM/Lambda resource creations.

### Current Behavior

It is creating extra resources like IAM role+policy, Lambda function which is not mentioned and required to enable event bridge notification.

### Reproduction Steps

Create new bucket with below code:

`
const bucket = new s3.Bucket(this, 'MyEventBridgeBucket', {
eventBridgeEnabled: true,
});
`

You will be able to see extra resources in cloud formation.

### Possible Solution

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### Additional Information/Context

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### CDK CLI Version

4.0

### Framework Version

^2.17.0

### Node.js Version

18

### OS

mac OS 13.4

### Language

Typescript

### Language Version

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### Other information

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Reproduce the issue with an s3.Bucket configured with eventBridgeEnabled: true, then inspect the synthesized CloudFormation template to identify why IAM and Lambda resources appear. Done means the bucket has EventBridge notifications enabled without those extra resources, with the relevant CDK behavior covered by a regression test.

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