(s3): Access Point with BucketDeployment

### Describe the feature

I would like to be able to use an access point instead of specifying a [destinationBucket](https://docs.aws.amazon.com/cdk/api/v1/docs/@aws-cdk_aws-s3-deployment.BucketDeployment.html#destinationbucket) for `BucketDeployment`

### Use Case

Requested by customer where company policy prevents direct access to S3 buckets (D46701589)

### Proposed Solution

Would require modifications to custom resource, or new custom resource altogether

### Other Information

_No response_

### Acknowledgements

- [ ] I may be able to implement this feature request
- [ ] This feature might incur a breaking change

### CDK version used

2

### Environment details (OS name and version, etc.)

mac

Start by reading the BucketDeployment documentation for destinationBucket and the AWS access point requirements. Trace the existing custom resource used by BucketDeployment, then define the required custom-resource changes; done means BucketDeployment can target an access point without requiring direct bucket access.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.