Improved management of context caching

### Describe the feature

Users need better tooling for managing context caching behaviors and for maintaining `cdk.context.json` cached values.

### Use Case

Users regularly open issues regarding stale values being returned by ContextProvider-enabled features (e.g. `Parameter.valueFromLookup`). As AWS itself recommends commiting `cdk.context.json` to source control to ensure reproducible builds, additional tooling should support maintaining it as well as control caching behaviors of lookups in general.

### Proposed Solution

1. Accept a validity duration as part of the lookup, after which the value will be refreshed by the context provider.
```typescript
export declare class StringParameter extends ParameterBase implements IStringParameter {
static valueFromLookup(scope: Construct, parameterName: string, validity?: Duration): string;
}
```
2. Accept filtering options for `cdk context --reset ` cli command. Allow wildcard key matching and environment-based filtering so unused values can be removed without impacting determinism of the synthesis.

If plugin-registered context-providers do eventually leave alpha, consider calling a staleness check with the cached values on context providers to support more complex cache-busting behaviors.
```typescript
export interface ContextProviderPlugin {
shouldRefresh(oldValue: any): Promise;
getValue(args: {
[key: string]: any;
}): Promise;
}
```

### Other Information

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### Acknowledgements

- [ ] I may be able to implement this feature request
- [ ] This feature might incur a breaking change

### CDK version used

2.19.0

### Environment details (OS name and version, etc.)

Windows 11 (WSL2 Ubuntu 20.04)

Start by reading the existing StringParameter.valueFromLookup API and the cdk context --reset command, then inspect how cached values in cdk.context.json are maintained. Clarify whether the scope covers lookup validity, CLI filtering, or ContextProviderPlugin staleness checks; done requires an agreed scope with corresponding behavior and tests.

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