(cli): hot-swap Lambda Layers attached to functions

### Description

I'd like the CDK CLI to support hot-swapping Lambda layers and associated lambda functions.

### Use Case

I'm developing a Lambda Extension in a Lambda Layer while the Layer is attached to a Lambda function. Whenever I hit save in CDK watch mode, the CDK CLI uses CloudFormation to deploy the changes and takes 90-100 seconds every time.

### Proposed Solution

I'm not familiar with the hot-swap code, but I think you could create a new layer version with the uploaded asset and update the functions it's attached to.

### Other information

_No response_

### Acknowledge

- [ ] I may be able to implement this feature request
- [ ] This feature might incur a breaking change

Start by tracing the CDK CLI hot-swap code and the Lambda layer and function update paths described in the issue. Done means CDK watch mode can create a new layer version, update attached functions, and avoid the full CloudFormation deployment.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.