(diff): provide an option to detect drift in cdk diff

### Describe the feature

Adds an option to detect differences between templates and drift differences simultaneously (e.g., --drift-aware).

### Use Case

In CloudFormation, there are two types of differences: diff (difference between the template managed by the Stack and the synthesized template) and drift (difference between the template managed by the Stack and the actual resources).

Currently, CDK requires using two commands, `cdk diff` and `cdk drift`, to check these differences respectively. However, this often leads to oversight, and beginners, in particular, may not even be aware of the existence of drift.

### Proposed Solution

Provide an option to detect drift when detecting differences between templates.

Example API may look like:

```sh
cdk diff --drift-aware
```

However, the `--change-set` option must be enabled.

### Other Information

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### Acknowledgements

- [x] I may be able to implement this feature request
- [ ] This feature might incur a breaking change

### CDK version used

2.1109.0

### Environment details (OS name and version, etc.)

All