unexpected stack trace for cyclic dependency error when attempting to grant auth access to lambda

### How did you install the Amplify CLI?

pnpm

### If applicable, what version of Node.js are you using?

18

### Amplify CLI Version

10.6.2

### What operating system are you using?

mac

### Did you make any manual changes to the cloud resources managed by Amplify? Please describe the changes made.

n/a

### Describe the bug

```
➜ amplify update function
? Select the Lambda function you want to update 928762ef6d3PostConfirmation
General information
- Name: 928762ef6d3PostConfirmation
- Runtime: nodejs

Resource access permission
- Not configured

Scheduled recurring invocation
- Not configured

Lambda layers
- Not configured

Environment variables:
- Not configured

Secrets configuration
- Not configured

? Which setting do you want to update? Resource access permissions
? Select the categories you want this function to have access to. auth
? Auth has 2 resources in this project. Select the one you would like your Lambda
to access 928762ef6d3
? Select the operations you want to permit on 928762ef6d3 read

You can access the following resource attributes as environment variables from your Lambda function
AUTH_928762EF6D3_USERPOOLID
Error: Cannot add 928762ef6d3PostConfirmation due to a cyclic dependency
at checkForCyclicDependencies (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/extensions/amplify-helpers/update-amplify-meta.js:248:15)
at AmplifyToolkit.updateamplifyMetaAfterResourceUpdate [as _updateamplifyMetaAfterResourceUpdate] (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/extensions/amplify-helpers/update-amplify-meta.js:155:9)
at updateFunctionResource (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/amplify-category-function/lib/provider-utils/awscloudformation/index.js:157:29)
at processTicksAndRejections (internal/process/task_queues.js:95:5)
at async Object.executeAmplifyCommand (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/amplify-category-function/lib/index.js:270:5)
at async executePluginModuleCommand (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/execution-manager.js:142:5)
at async executeCommand (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/execution-manager.js:40:9)
at async Object.run (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/index.js:119:5)
There was an error adding the function resource
```

### Expected behavior

instead of

```
Error: Cannot add 928762ef6d3PostConfirmation due to a cyclic dependency
at checkForCyclicDependencies (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/extensions/amplify-helpers/update-amplify-meta.js:248:15)
at AmplifyToolkit.updateamplifyMetaAfterResourceUpdate [as _updateamplifyMetaAfterResourceUpdate] (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/extensions/amplify-helpers/update-amplify-meta.js:155:9)
at updateFunctionResource (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/amplify-category-function/lib/provider-utils/awscloudformation/index.js:157:29)
at processTicksAndRejections (internal/process/task_queues.js:95:5)
at async Object.executeAmplifyCommand (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/amplify-category-function/lib/index.js:270:5)
at async executePluginModuleCommand (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/execution-manager.js:142:5)
at async executeCommand (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/execution-manager.js:40:9)
at async Object.run (/snapshot/repo/build/node_modules/@aws-amplify/cli-internal/lib/index.js:119:5)
There was an error adding the function resource
```

print

```
Error: Cannot add 928762ef6d3PostConfirmation due to a cyclic dependency
```

additionally, it would be nice if this error were printed when validating the options selected, blocking us from proceeding to select a CRUD permission:

```
? Select the categories you want this function to have access to.
◯ api
❯◉ auth
◯ custom
◯ function
◯ storage
Unable to add auth due to a cyclic dependency
```

### Reproduction steps

1. `amplify init -y`
2. `amplify add auth` > manual configuration
3. accept most defaults, add a PostConfirmation trigger
4. update the PostConfirmation trigger with `amplify update function`
5. select Resource Access Permissions
6. attempt to grant auth read access
7. observe stack trace with error "There was an error adding the function resource"

### Project Identifier

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### Log output

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```

### Additional information

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### Before submitting, please confirm:

- [X] I have done my best to include a minimal, self-contained set of instructions for consistently reproducing the issue.
- [X] I have removed any sensitive information from my code snippets and submission.

Reproduce the flow through amplify update function and resource access permissions, then inspect checkForCyclicDependencies and updateamplifyMetaAfterResourceUpdate in amplify-helpers/update-amplify-meta.js, plus updateFunctionResource in the function provider. Done means the CLI reports the cyclic-dependency error without an unexpected stack trace and, where possible, rejects the selection during validation.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.