[FR]: allow setting `incremental` via a `select` statement in ts_project_rule

### What is the current behavior?

If you try to use a `select` statement, e.g.
```
ts_project(
name = name + "_typecheck",
incremental = select({
"//some/setting": True,
"//conditions:default": False,
}),
...
)
```

when the `select` statement evaluates to False, you get this error:
`error TS5069: Option 'tsBuildInfoFile' cannot be specified without specifying option 'incremental' or option 'composite'.`

this [line](https://github.com/aspect-build/rules_ts/blob/dc5f4549cffae844166620e81bbff9acf7e66428/ts/defs.bzl#L430) that sets buildinfo_out evaluates to tsbuildinfo_path because incremental has a value (the select statement), and so ts_project runs a command that looks like `tsc_for_ts_project.sh --project tsconfig_project_name.json ... --tsBuildInfoFile project_name.tsbuildinfo`

### Describe the feature

We want to be able to turn on incremental for some builds to test performance without affecting our current CI performance

Start at ts/defs.bzl around line 430, where ts_project determines buildinfo_out from incremental, and trace how the ts_project rule handles select values. Reproduce the example with incremental enabled and disabled; done means the disabled branch no longer passes --tsBuildInfoFile while the enabled branch still supports incremental builds.

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