[Bug]: Clang-tidy silently swallows missing libtinfo5.so error

### What happened?

I wanted to reproduce a monorepo issue we saw when running the liniting aspect on first-party code in an external module. (I'll wrap that up to its own issue as I understand it better).

But at first it seemingly did succeed for my reproducer dummy files, but crashed when I ran it manually in the sandbox.
Reproducer: https://github.com/meroton/bazel-examples/tree/4dbaf4441df0b11e57bf7320af9541e81c89e143
This just downloads a prebuilt clang-tidy to use as a `native_binary` and then run the aspect with it on a bunch of empty files.

It seems that the wrapper code does not handle this uncommon error mode. As clang-tidy is most often packaged together with all of its dependencies and will work, but I think it would be best to have a catch-all for the weirdest unforeseen error cases.

```
11:40 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ sudo apt remove libtinfo5
...

11:47 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ bazel clean
INFO: Starting clean (this may take a while). Use --async if the clean takes more than several minutes.

11:47 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ bazel --quiet build --aspects @inner//rules_lint:lint.bzl%clang_tidy --output_groups rules_lint_human @inner//:lib
Aspect @@inner+//rules_lint:lint.bzl%clang_tidy of @@inner+//:lib up-to-date:
bazel-bin/external/inner+/lib.AspectRulesLintClangTidy.out
bazel-bin/external/inner+/lib.AspectRulesLintClangTidy.out.exit_code

11:48 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ cat bazel-bin/external/inner+/lib.AspectRulesLintClangTidy.out{,.exit_code}
bazel-out/k8-opt-exec-ST-d57f47055a04/bin/external/inner++_repo_rules+clang/clang-tidy: error while loading shared libraries: libtinfo.so.5: cannot open shared object file: No such file or directory
127

11:48 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ sudo apt install libtinfo5
...

11:48 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ bazel clean
INFO: Starting clean (this may take a while). Use --async if the clean takes more than several minutes.
11:48 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ bazel --quiet build --aspects @inner//rules_lint:lint.bzl%clang_tidy --output_groups rules_lint_human @inner//:lib
ERROR: /tmp/bazel-output-base/external/inner+/BUILD.bazel:3:11: Linting @@inner+//:lib with clang-tidy failed: (Exit 1): bash failed: error executing AspectRulesLintClangTidy command (from target @@inner+//:lib) /bin/bash -c 'bazel-out/k8-opt-exec-ST-d57f47055a04/bin/external/aspect_rules_lint+/lint/clang_tidy_wrapper $@' '' bazel-out/k8-opt-exec-ST-d57f47055a04/bin/external/inner++_repo_rules+clang/clang-tidy ... (remaining 4 arguments skipped)

Use --sandbox_debug to see verbose messages from the sandbox and retain the sandbox build root for debugging
Error reading configuration from /tmp/bazel-output-base/sandbox/linux-sandbox/5/execroot/_main/../inner+: directory doesn't exist.
Error reading configuration from /tmp/bazel-output-base/sandbox/linux-sandbox/5/execroot/_main/../inner+: directory doesn't exist.
Error while processing /tmp/bazel-output-base/sandbox/linux-sandbox/5/execroot/_main/../inner+/source.c.
error: no input files [clang-diagnostic-error]
error: no such file or directory: '/tmp/bazel-output-base/sandbox/linux-sandbox/5/execroot/_main/../inner+/source.c' [clang-diagnostic-error]
error: unable to handle compilation, expected exactly one compiler job in '' [clang-diagnostic-error]
Found compiler error(s).
Aspect @@inner+//rules_lint:lint.bzl%clang_tidy of @@inner+//:lib failed to build
Use --verbose_failures to see the command lines of failed build steps.
ERROR: Build did NOT complete successfully

11:48 ██ ~/git/bazel-examples $ cat bazel-bin/external/inner+/lib.AspectRulesLintClangTidy.out{,.exit_code}
cat: bazel-bin/external/inner+/lib.AspectRulesLintClangTidy.out: No such file or directory
cat: bazel-bin/external/inner+/lib.AspectRulesLintClangTidy.out.exit_code: No such file or directory
```

### Version

Development (host) and target OS/architectures:

Output of `bazel --version`: 8.1.0, 8.4.1

Version of the Aspect rules, or other relevant rules from your
`WORKSPACE` or `MODULE.bazel` file:

Language(s) and/or frameworks involved:
```
bazel_dep(name = "rules_cc", version = "0.2.8")
bazel_dep(name = "aspect_rules_lint", version = "1.9.0")
bazel_dep(name = "bazel_skylib", version = "1.8.2")

http_archive(
name = "clang",
url = "https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/releases/download/llvmorg-18.1.8/clang+llvm-18.1.8-x86_64-linux-gnu-ubuntu-18.04.tar.xz",
```

### How to reproduce

```shell
Reproducer: https://github.com/meroton/bazel-examples/tree/4dbaf4441df0b11e57bf7320af9541e81c89e143
Run `bazel build --aspects @inner//rules_lint:lint.bzl%clang_tidy --output_groups rules_lint_human @inner//:lib`
With and without libtinfo5
```

### Any other information?

_No response_

Start with lint/clang_tidy_wrapper, using the linked bazel-examples reproducer and the documented build command with and without libtinfo5. Compare the wrapper's output and exit handling for the missing shared-library error. Done means the failure is surfaced clearly instead of producing misleading successful aspect outputs.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.