[FR]: Allow setting vite-node as node_toolchain

### What is the current behavior?

Difficult or no examples on how to swap node with something like vite-node

### Describe the feature

Trying to add vite-node as the node toolchain.
Smallest repro I could make:
https://github.com/pat-trunk-io/vite-note-rules-js

I would like to get to a point where running:
```
bazel run //src:test
```

would invoke vite-node as the node equivalent, which would then call node with the patched_fs node of rules_js

Start with the linked smallest reproduction, pat-trunk-io/vite-note-rules-js, and inspect how it attempts to configure vite-node as the node toolchain. Run `bazel run //src:test` to establish the current behavior; done means the command invokes vite-node as the node equivalent and allows it to call node with rules_js's patched_fs node.

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