Suspended workflows don't respect `activeDeadlineSeconds`

### What happened? What did you expect to happen?

Reproduce:
1. Start workflow
2. Suspend during1st sleep
3. Wait until 1st sleep finishes (sleep for 40s) and `activedeadlineSeconds` passed (100s)
4. Workflow is in `running` state

__Expectation 1__: In step 4 workflow should fail after `activeDeadlineSeconds` pass.

I can imagine that this may be expected behaviour. This is questionable, and in our use case doesn't make sense. However in such case the following steps should succeed:

5. Resume workflow after previous steps
6. Next step fail

__Expectation 2__: In step 6 `activeDeadlineSeconds` should not fail and the deadline timer should be stopped for effective suspend time (workflow in suspend and running steps done).

Again: __Expectation 1__ is what would be most logical for me. In such case __Expectation 2__ would make no sense.

### Version(s)

v3.5.11, v3.6.0-rc1, c9b093cf1844fad034f6b5a6a73a353bcfed5c7fe53ca10b4bd7f11b6483cd25

### Paste a minimal workflow that reproduces the issue. We must be able to run the workflow; don't enter a workflows that uses private images.

```YAML
apiVersion: argoproj.io/v1alpha1
kind: WorkflowTemplate
metadata:
name: sleep
spec:
templates:
- name: job-sleep
steps:
- - name: sleep1
template: sleep
arguments:
parameters:
- name: duration
value: '{{workflow.parameters.duration}}'
- - name: sleep2
template: sleep
arguments:
parameters:
- name: duration
value: '{{workflow.parameters.duration}}'
- name: sleep
inputs:
parameters:
- name: duration
container:
image: ubuntu
command:
- sleep
args:
- '{{inputs.parameters.duration}}'
imagePullPolicy: IfNotPresent
entrypoint: job-sleep
arguments:
parameters:
- name: duration
value: '40'
activeDeadlineSeconds: 100
```

### Logs from the workflow controller

```text
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.719Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase= ResourceVersion=650257 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.725Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=0 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.725Z" level=info msg="Updated phase -> Running" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.725Z" level=warning msg="Node was nil, will be initialized as type Skipped" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.726Z" level=info msg="was unable to obtain node for , letting display name to be nodeName" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.726Z" level=info msg="Steps node sleep-jb6ft initialized Running" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.726Z" level=info msg="StepGroup node sleep-jb6ft-2735383173 initialized Running" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.726Z" level=warning msg="Node was nil, will be initialized as type Skipped" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.726Z" level=info msg="Pod node sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 initialized Pending" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.732Z" level=info msg="Created pod: sleep-jb6ft[0].sleep1 (sleep-jb6ft-sleep-4036592383)" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.732Z" level=info msg="Workflow step group node sleep-jb6ft-2735383173 not yet completed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.732Z" level=info msg="TaskSet Reconciliation" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.732Z" level=info msg=reconcileAgentPod namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:05:55.739Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650261 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.736Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650261 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.736Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.737Z" level=info msg="node changed" namespace=argo-test new.message= new.phase=Running new.progress=0/1 nodeID=sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 old.message= old.phase=Pending old.progress=0/1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.738Z" level=info msg="Workflow step group node sleep-jb6ft-2735383173 not yet completed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.738Z" level=info msg="TaskSet Reconciliation" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.738Z" level=info msg=reconcileAgentPod namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:05.746Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650293 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:15.755Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650304 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:15.757Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:15.757Z" level=info msg="node unchanged" namespace=argo-test nodeID=sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:15.757Z" level=info msg="workflow suspended" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:15.767Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650311 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:25.768Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650311 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:25.769Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:25.770Z" level=info msg="node unchanged" namespace=argo-test nodeID=sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:25.770Z" level=info msg="workflow suspended" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:25.779Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650311 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:48.264Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650311 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:48.266Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:48.266Z" level=info msg="node changed" namespace=argo-test new.message= new.phase=Succeeded new.progress=0/1 nodeID=sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 old.message= old.phase=Running old.progress=0/1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:48.266Z" level=info msg="workflow suspended" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:48.279Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650386 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:48.285Z" level=info msg="cleaning up pod" action=labelPodCompleted key=argo-test/sleep-jb6ft-sleep-4036592383/labelPodCompleted
time="2024-10-07T14:06:58.285Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650386 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:58.286Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:58.287Z" level=info msg="workflow suspended" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:06:58.296Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650386 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.975Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650631 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.976Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="Step group node sleep-jb6ft-2735383173 successful" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-2735383173 phase Running -> Succeeded" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-2735383173 finished: 2024-10-07 14:09:00.977251964 +0000 UTC" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="StepGroup node sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 initialized Running" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="SG Outbound nodes of sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 are [sleep-jb6ft-4036592383]" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=warning msg="Node was nil, will be initialized as type Skipped" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="Pod node sleep-jb6ft-3329728253 initialized Pending" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="Workflow step group node sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 not yet completed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg="TaskSet Reconciliation" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.977Z" level=info msg=reconcileAgentPod namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:09:00.991Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Running resourceVersion=650647 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.051Z" level=info msg="Processing workflow" Phase=Running ResourceVersion=650647 namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.052Z" level=info msg="Task-result reconciliation" namespace=argo-test numObjs=1 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.052Z" level=info msg="Workflow pod is missing" namespace=argo-test nodeName="sleep-jb6ft[1].sleep2" nodePhase=Pending recentlyStarted=false workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.052Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-3329728253 phase Pending -> Failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.052Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-3329728253 message: Step exceeded its deadline" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.052Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-3329728253 finished: 2024-10-07 14:10:06.052487716 +0000 UTC" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.052Z" level=info msg="SG Outbound nodes of sleep-jb6ft-4036592383 are [sleep-jb6ft-4036592383]" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="Step group node sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 deemed failed: child 'sleep-jb6ft-3329728253' failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 phase Running -> Failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 message: child 'sleep-jb6ft-3329728253' failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 finished: 2024-10-07 14:10:06.05323005 +0000 UTC" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="step group sleep-jb6ft-3742187408 was unsuccessful: child 'sleep-jb6ft-3329728253' failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="Outbound nodes of sleep-jb6ft-3329728253 is [sleep-jb6ft-3329728253]" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="Outbound nodes of sleep-jb6ft is [sleep-jb6ft-3329728253]" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft phase Running -> Failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft message: child 'sleep-jb6ft-3329728253' failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="node sleep-jb6ft finished: 2024-10-07 14:10:06.053333091 +0000 UTC" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="TaskSet Reconciliation" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg=reconcileAgentPod namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="Updated phase Running -> Failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="Updated message -> child 'sleep-jb6ft-3329728253' failed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.053Z" level=info msg="Marking workflow completed" namespace=argo-test workflow=sleep-jb6ft
time="2024-10-07T14:10:06.065Z" level=info msg="Workflow update successful" namespace=argo-test phase=Failed resourceVersion=650750 workflow=sleep-jb6ft
```

### Logs from in your workflow's wait container

```text
time="2024-10-07T14:05:57.186Z" level=info msg="Using executor retry strategy" Duration=1s Factor=1.6 Jitter=0.5 Steps=5
time="2024-10-07T14:05:57.186Z" level=info msg="Executor initialized" deadline="2024-10-07 14:07:35 +0000 UTC" includeScriptOutput=false namespace=argo-test podName=sleep-jb6ft-sleep-4036592383 templateName=sleep version="&Version{Version:v3.6.0-rc2,BuildDate:2024-10-03T07:50:54Z,GitCommit:5310c396ee1e9f4e5575f62ef5340a86540d8679,GitTag:v3.6.0-rc2,GitTreeState:clean,GoVersion:go1.23.2,Compiler:gc,Platform:linux/arm64,}"
time="2024-10-07T14:05:57.191Z" level=info msg="Starting deadline monitor"
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.246Z" level=info msg="Main container completed" error=""
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.246Z" level=info msg="No Script output reference in workflow. Capturing script output ignored"
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.246Z" level=info msg="No output parameters"
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.246Z" level=info msg="No output artifacts"
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.258Z" level=info msg="Alloc=9689 TotalAlloc=15638 Sys=22613 NumGC=4 Goroutines=8"
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.260Z" level=info msg="Deadline monitor stopped"
time="2024-10-07T14:06:38.260Z" level=info msg="stopping progress monitor (context done)" error="context canceled"
```

Use the supplied WorkflowTemplate and controller logs to reproduce the interaction between suspension and activeDeadlineSeconds. Start at workflow reconciliation for suspended workflows and determine which deadline behavior is intended; done means the chosen behavior is consistent after suspension, resumption, and completion of the first sleep step.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.