[Subtask] [Netty] Writer support off heap memory to compress data

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### Describe the subtask

Writer support off heap memory to compress data. And we use the off heap memory to send data.

### Parent issue

#133

### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!