[Improvement] better operation support for RSS operator

### Code of Conduct

- [X] I agree to follow this project's [Code of Conduct](https://www.apache.org/foundation/policies/conduct)

### Search before asking

- [X] I have searched in the [issues](https://github.com/apache/incubator-uniffle/issues?q=is%3Aissue) and found no similar issues.

### What would you like to be improved?

1. add cli support to update/upgrading/rolling upgrade rss clusters.
2. [maybe] helm charts support for rss operator and the rss cluster

### How should we improve?

_No response_

### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

Start by locating the RSS operator and any existing CLI entry points for cluster operations. Clarify whether the work includes rolling upgrades, general updates, Helm chart support, or all three, then define completion criteria for each selected operation and verify them against an RSS cluster.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.