[Improvement] Optional config to control the detailed uniffle spark metrics collection

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### What would you like to be improved?

Optional config to control the detailed uniffle spark metrics collection

### How should we improve?

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [x] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

Start by locating the Uniffle Spark metrics collection entry points and existing configuration definitions. Determine the configuration surface needed to control detailed metrics collection, then verify that the optional setting changes collection behavior as intended.

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