[FEATURE] Introduce a common BannedManager to ban the found bad application

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### Describe the feature

Provide a common way to banned an app to fallback to SORT shuffle manager. The app id can be extracted from a specific spark conf.

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- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

Start by locating the shuffle-manager selection path and the Spark configuration from which the application ID should be extracted. Review how SORT shuffle manager fallback is currently selected and define the common banned-application behavior. Done means a shared BannedManager can identify the configured application and route that application to SORT shuffle manager, with tests covering the fallback.

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