[Bug] Docker image build script with Hadoop3.2 does not work with Netty and Epoll

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### Describe the bug

Building a docker image via `deploy/kubernetes/docker/build.sh --hadoop-version 3.2.4` and using that with Netty and Epoll fails because the image contains the Hadoop binaries, which contain a different `netty-all` jar then the RSS shuffle server.

This can be fixed by
- either not include the Hadoop binaries in the Docker image
- or by downgrading Netty version to match the version contained in the Hadoop binaries

### Affects Version(s)

master

### Uniffle Server Log Output

```logtalk
Exception in thread "main" java.lang.UnsatisfiedLinkError: failed to load the required native library
at io.netty.channel.epoll.Epoll.ensureAvailability(Epoll.java:81)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoop.(EpollEventLoop.java:57)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoopGroup.newChild(EpollEventLoopGroup.java:189)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoopGroup.newChild(EpollEventLoopGroup.java:37)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.MultithreadEventExecutorGroup.(MultithreadEventExecutorGroup.java:84)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.MultithreadEventExecutorGroup.(MultithreadEventExecutorGroup.java:60)
at io.netty.util.concurrent.MultithreadEventExecutorGroup.(MultithreadEventExecutorGroup.java:49)
at io.netty.channel.MultithreadEventLoopGroup.(MultithreadEventLoopGroup.java:59)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoopGroup.(EpollEventLoopGroup.java:117)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoopGroup.(EpollEventLoopGroup.java:104)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoopGroup.(EpollEventLoopGroup.java:81)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.EpollEventLoopGroup.(EpollEventLoopGroup.java:57)
at org.apache.uniffle.server.netty.StreamServer.(StreamServer.java:88)
at org.apache.uniffle.server.ShuffleServer.initialization(ShuffleServer.java:300)
at org.apache.uniffle.server.ShuffleServer.(ShuffleServer.java:113)
at org.apache.uniffle.server.ShuffleServer.main(ShuffleServer.java:131)
Caused by: java.lang.ExceptionInInitializerError
at io.netty.channel.epoll.Epoll.(Epoll.java:40)
... 15 more
Caused by: java.lang.IllegalStateException: Multiple resources found for 'META-INF/native/libnetty_transport_native_epoll_x86_64.so' with different content: [jar:file:/data/rssadmin/rss/jars/server/netty-transport-native-epoll-4.1.109.Final-linux-x86_64.jar!/META-INF/native/libnetty_transport_native_epoll_x86_64.so, jar:file:/data/rssadmin/hadoop/share/hadoop/hdfs/lib/netty-all-4.1.68.Final.jar!/META-INF/native/libnetty_transport_native_epoll_x86_64.so]
at io.netty.util.internal.NativeLibraryLoader.getResource(NativeLibraryLoader.java:301)
at io.netty.util.internal.NativeLibraryLoader.load(NativeLibraryLoader.java:173)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.Native.loadNativeLibrary(Native.java:334)
at io.netty.channel.epoll.Native.(Native.java:96)
... 16 more
```
```

### Uniffle Engine Log Output

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### Uniffle Server Configurations

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### Uniffle Engine Configurations

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### Additional context

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

- [X] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

Start with deploy/kubernetes/docker/build.sh and reproduce the Hadoop 3.2.4 image build with Netty and Epoll enabled. Inspect the Hadoop and RSS server jars involved in the logged native-library conflict; done means the image no longer provides conflicting Netty native resources and the shuffle server starts successfully.

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