[Bug] Incorrect stage retry condition for write failure

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### Describe the bug

In current codebase, the stage retry condition on write failure is incorrect that will check the failure server report times whether is great than the spark task max failure. Actually, when reaching the max task failure times, it should always trigger the stage retry, this is not related with the failure server happening number.

### Affects Version(s)

master

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No file or test is named in the issue. Locate the stage retry logic for write failures and trace how Spark's maximum task failure count is compared with failure-server reports; done means reaching the task-failure limit always triggers stage retry regardless of the server report count.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.