[Bug] Duplicated shaded-grpc jar cause task fail

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### Describe the bug

There is shaded-grpc jar in client-tez,
When there is also shaded-grpc jar in user UDF,
then, there will be sometimes task fail.

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### Affects Version(s)

0.7.0

### Uniffle Server Log Output

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### Uniffle Engine Log Output

```logtalk
###|||2024-02-23 11:07:41.996|||INFO|||-|||-|||main|||-|||RssDAGAppMaster--->Registering coordinators 172.19.193.73:19999,172.19.193.182:19999
###|||2024-02-23 11:07:41.996|||INFO|||-|||-|||main|||-|||CoordinatorClientFactory--->Start to create coordinator clients from 172.19.193.73:19999,172.19.193.182:19999
###|||2024-02-23 11:07:42.013|||ERROR|||-|||-|||main|||-|||RssDAGAppMaster--->Error starting RssDAGAppMaster
java.lang.NoSuchFieldError: EPOLL_DOMAIN_CLIENT_CHANNEL_TYPE
at io.grpc.netty.shaded.io.grpc.netty.UdsNettyChannelProvider.isAvailable(UdsNettyChannelProvider.java:34)
at io.grpc.ManagedChannelRegistry$ManagedChannelPriorityAccessor.isAvailable(ManagedChannelRegistry.java:172)
at io.grpc.ManagedChannelRegistry$ManagedChannelPriorityAccessor.isAvailable(ManagedChannelRegistry.java:168)
at io.grpc.ServiceProviders.loadAll(ServiceProviders.java:68)
at io.grpc.ManagedChannelRegistry.getDefaultRegistry(ManagedChannelRegistry.java:96)
at io.grpc.ManagedChannelProvider.provider(ManagedChannelProvider.java:41)
at io.grpc.ManagedChannelBuilder.forAddress(ManagedChannelBuilder.java:39)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.impl.grpc.GrpcClient.(GrpcClient.java:43)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.impl.grpc.CoordinatorGrpcClient.(CoordinatorGrpcClient.java:91)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.impl.grpc.CoordinatorGrpcClient.(CoordinatorGrpcClient.java:87)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.impl.grpc.CoordinatorGrpcClient.(CoordinatorGrpcClient.java:83)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.factory.CoordinatorClientFactory.createCoordinatorClient(CoordinatorClientFactory.java:43)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.factory.CoordinatorClientFactory.createCoordinatorClient(CoordinatorClientFactory.java:69)
at org.apache.uniffle.client.impl.ShuffleWriteClientImpl.registerCoordinators(ShuffleWriteClientImpl.java:431)
at org.apache.tez.dag.app.RssDAGAppMaster.initAndStartRSSClient(RssDAGAppMaster.java:144)
at org.apache.tez.dag.app.RssDAGAppMaster.serviceInit(RssDAGAppMaster.java:107)
at org.apache.hadoop.service.AbstractService.init(AbstractService.java:164)
at org.apache.tez.dag.app.DAGAppMaster$9.run(DAGAppMaster.java:2662)
at java.security.AccessController.doPrivileged(Native Method)
at javax.security.auth.Subject.doAs(Subject.java:422)
at org.apache.hadoop.security.UserGroupInformation.doAs(UserGroupInformation.java:1730)
at org.apache.tez.dag.app.DAGAppMaster.initAndStartAppMaster(DAGAppMaster.java:2659)
at org.apache.tez.dag.app.RssDAGAppMaster.main(RssDAGAppMaster.java:348)
```

### Uniffle Server Configurations

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### Uniffle Engine Configurations

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### Additional context

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### Are you willing to submit PR?

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