[Discuss][Zeta] Support pekko as new distributed service framework

### Search before asking

- [X] I had searched in the [feature](https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/issues?q=is%3Aissue+label%3A%22Feature%22) and found no similar feature requirement.

### Description

Currently we use hazelcast as the distributed service framework, but we found some problems：
- [Monitor tools are subject to licensing restrictions](https://docs.hazelcast.com/management-center/5.1/getting-started/overview#licensing)
- Future concerns about licensing https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/issues/7513
- The community is not open enough

pekko
- https://pekko.apache.org/

### Usage Scenario

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### Related issues

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### Are you willing to submit a PR?

- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

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